
'Father-bashing over two generations', pretty much sums up Mitch Albom's most recent tear-jerker "For One More Day".
One of those 'let-me-be-your-counsellor' kind of novel, "For One More Day" starts off really well where Charley the main protagonist decides he wants an out of his lack-lustre life where he's failed as a son, as a husband, and as a father. However, he's unable to do even that; his suicide attempt fails! What happens next is an out-of-the-world experience where a comatose Charley establishes communication with his long dead mother; a mother he 'didn't ever stand up for'. From this point on the novel is all downhill. A set of contrived situations to showcase the sheer selflessness of motherhood against an apathetic father figure telling a young Charley "You can be a mama's boy or a daddy's boy, but you can't be both."
It took me a long time to figure out my response to the novel; primarily due to a sense of guilt for not liking what Albom presented; perhaps because at some level it did pertain to me, and to Everyman. All of us have some cleansing to do; to rid ourselves of those ghosts from our past that seem to haunt us; and here was this novel doing just that, and yet I could not readily say that I liked it. The cloying sentimentality and the not-so-surreal situations made it distant, and I could not lose myself in it; I could not suspend my disbelief.
If "Tuesdays with Morrie" is what made you pick up this novel, you are bound to be disappointed.
Hi, you cheered me up: this review has some lovely, quiet one liners. I don't know any Albom. So, I looked at his website. After that, I understood your tone, here, much better. I felt I ought to like him, he is such an earnest person, but the "ought" never seems to work with me. He made his novel--as he talked about it--sound like a comedy, but at the same time his self-belief in his work seemed to give it serious cosmic status. One more day "explores all of that", our final confrontation with our parents and personal history--you know, a little thing like that summed up in one book, a death-in-life experience over a cup over coffee. I shall remember your "let-me-be-your-counsellor kind of novel."
ReplyDeleteI liked it a lot. The emotions it brought were real. I don't see why anyone will not like it.
ReplyDeleteHey...interestingly, this a good criticism of the book...which may make someone to actually buy and read it :-)
ReplyDeleteHave not read ths book yet...
ReplyDeletebut intend too!
I'll see if I agree with you!
Loved "Tuesday's With Morrie!
Margie
I think this book madee me think of what I would do if I had just one more day to live. I think a lot.
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I am not sure about the book, but I really like the way you write your reviews.
ReplyDeleteI don't know whether the diplomacy is on purpose, but you always (well mostly anyways) toe the very thin line of actually recommending and not recommending something.
In the end, a person seems compelled (or atleast very interested) in atleast checking out the thing that you wrote about.
Has happened to me on almost all of your reviews and I really enjoy reading them and wish my reviews could go a bit your way.
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First i just wanted tell you that i haven't finish with the book but so far I know what you're talking about. Like I told you before this is my kind of Author and reading. Albom's books have a unique point that you should never miss. Your review is great like the others... I love it!!!!!!
ReplyDeletePS- please! recommend me some other books like this one
-U.N
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